People say the craziest things

 Try not to take things that people say personally. People say some crazy things to you when you are grieving. I think they mean well, but think about it for a minute, is there really anything they can say that will take the pain you feel away. I think it makes them so uncomfortable to see you suffering that the just want to make you better, so they end up saying something that they think will be helpful which most of the time is not helpful at all or even might make you more upset. I know it is easier said than done, but dealing with the death of your child is hard enough without adding more anger or frustration to the mix.